I attended the second session of psychotherapy at 2pm. The therapist had just finished his previous call, my session only began at around 230pm. We ended the session around 4pm. The therapist told me previously that the session should only take about 45 mins, but we ended up doubling the session due to the extensiveness of my problems.
We first chatted about my current update. The original plan was to contend the problems on present situation first before jumping into early life experience. I told the therapist that I had, on my own accord, went into analysing my ELE based on Scott's book. We therefore drilled into the topic quite a bit subsequently. The therapist was a bit taken aback with my ELE and agreed that there were major unhappiness in every phases of my life till now. He was trying to use my academic and job achievement to balance the equation. I told him that I had also tried that route too but it didn't work out as well
He told me he would go back and disgest a bit more on my ELE and my current problems. At the mean time, it seemed to him that to find a life partner was the only solution to get myself out of my current situation. We discussed the difficulty and risk in searching for the right person. He suggested that he could be the referee to help to confirm and strengthen the relationship if I ever found a suitable life partner. He further stressed that this person must be a genuine person in nature, not someone would take advantage of me.
We re-visited my ex, but I told him that it would be difficult as my ex had his own set of problems to be solved. H was also been ruled out as I felt that he still quite in love with his bf and I would feel guilty to break out other's relationship. J seemed to be still dealing with his own problems with his ex and on his tantrum.
Currently, it seems that there isn't any suitable candidate yet.
We first chatted about my current update. The original plan was to contend the problems on present situation first before jumping into early life experience. I told the therapist that I had, on my own accord, went into analysing my ELE based on Scott's book. We therefore drilled into the topic quite a bit subsequently. The therapist was a bit taken aback with my ELE and agreed that there were major unhappiness in every phases of my life till now. He was trying to use my academic and job achievement to balance the equation. I told him that I had also tried that route too but it didn't work out as well
He told me he would go back and disgest a bit more on my ELE and my current problems. At the mean time, it seemed to him that to find a life partner was the only solution to get myself out of my current situation. We discussed the difficulty and risk in searching for the right person. He suggested that he could be the referee to help to confirm and strengthen the relationship if I ever found a suitable life partner. He further stressed that this person must be a genuine person in nature, not someone would take advantage of me.
We re-visited my ex, but I told him that it would be difficult as my ex had his own set of problems to be solved. H was also been ruled out as I felt that he still quite in love with his bf and I would feel guilty to break out other's relationship. J seemed to be still dealing with his own problems with his ex and on his tantrum.
Currently, it seems that there isn't any suitable candidate yet.
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Hey =)
Good luck with it all yeah.
-Teo-
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