Sunday, February 17, 2008

Experience sharing

Just finished a conversation with K on phone. K broke off from his 7 years of relationship in Sep last year. I have been imparting him my experience and he has been walking the path I have been through. Almost 5 months after now, K thought that he had already got out from his past relationship. Never would he know that he would be in rebound after 5 months though I had already warn him long ago. History on me repeated on K when he met A from the net, they started real well for the first week and the rebound kicked in . He has been tormented between the two feelings these few days and tried to get reconnected back to his ex a while ago. He checked with me again what is the situation when one is in rebound. Not that I have much energy to care about other, I have in no position to help anyone at the moment in fact. The only thing I could do was to repeat my experience to him again and provided method for him to separate his ex from his soul. I explained the concept of connection of souls to him also. I also tell him to remember the pain he is suffering now, so that he will know how to treasure the next relationship more.

I told K that he is very lucky as he has been taping my experience to manage his failed relationship. He agreed. I told him that if someone like me would give me the same advices after my break off, maybe I won't be in the current stage of misery. In fact, I have been hoping many a time at certain crucial juncture that someone would come along and lend his hand on my situation. But I guess it's my own karma that it has been an empty hope. I think that should a hand be there at certain key moments, I might not landed myself in this stage now.